A couple of years ago, I went crab fishing with my friends. Btw, have you ever gone fishing crabs?, it’s exciting!!, you should try it sometime, well anyway, here’s how we did it…
First, we tied a small rock to a bamboo stick through a one-meter string, and then we swung the rock to the crab. We intentionally disturbed the crab hopefully to make it angry.
We did it a couple of times, we were pulling and twitching the string. And after minuets of unsuccessful attempts, finally we managed to upset the crab; it started to ‘bite’ the string or the rock furiously by using its tweezers.
The crab must have carried away with its vengeance to viciously hold up its grab on our pity device as the crab would probably say “Aha, I got you now, I won’t let you go.” And there we found our lunch… LoL
Next thing we did was, we carefully pulled the string along with the crab to a big boiling pan which we had prepared it earlier. And then, we lowered the crab into the pan. Once the crab hit the boiling water inside the pan, it released its bite. And so, the crab’s reign was over indefinitely while we embellished our face with a huge smile.
The crab has been a victim of its own rage. Since small things, such as the little rock and the string, had easily made the crab flew into a rage, which in turn made itself vulnerable to your manipulation.
Often you see a lot of people fall into a deep trouble; They are losing an opportunity or going down to a slump career or even losing everything. All because of the unmanageable ANGER. Therefore, when you have to face an unfortunate event or a discommodity from “a little rock”, it’s always better if you face it wisely.
One of a way to dim off a boiling rage is by doing a practical meditation technique which includes postponing the “urge temptation” to immediately respond to an upsetting situation. This is how you do it; Stand back for a while by two or three minuets, take a deep breathe, or even wash your face with water to cool things down.
Once a wise man said “only fools rushing.” I couldn’t agree more with it.. Sometime, you need to be tardy and languid your response to the things you upset most if you are going to escape “the boiling pan” which can ruin your precious future.